ClosetMom

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Child of God first. A proud mother of one amazing little girl. Helicopter aunt to other wonderful little ones. Closet Mom is a BA Psychology and Philosophy graduate and trained people development specialist. A a firm believer in the positive effects of peer-support in all forms; celebrating femininity in the many roles, responsibility and abilities. She is an advocate for taking the time to create and rediscover yourself each day... for each day is different and a blessing from God.

CLOSETMOM: State of the nation regarding violence against Women

I’ve been quietly observing the situation regarding the abuse and killing of women and children in this country. It is a hotly debated yet touchy subject. You don’t know whose toes you might step on regardless of your good intentions. However, as woman who has experienced violence and sexual...

CLOSET MOM: Breasts… Only Shameful When Feeding A Baby

Boobs, arguably the most celebrated part of the female form.It is a multi-million-dollar industry, estimated to grow into a 2 to 4-billion-dollar industry. Women are proud of them and men adore them, until there is a baby attached to one. Then they become unsightly and all of a sudden...

CLOSET MOM CHATS: Natural Calming Oils For Your Little One – Hit Or Miss?

Dear Parents, have you heard about this new craze called the C*B*D Oil? I was minding my business while The Daily Show With Trevor Noah was playing in the background. Then I heard him mention something about a cannabis oil some moms are using on their children. It caught my...

CLOSETMOM: Day-care vs Nanny

MY DAUGHTER IS EIGHTEEN MONTHS NOW, AND I AM READY TO START FOCUSING ON MY OTHER PROJECTS A BIT MORE. IT’S A TRANSITIONAL PHASE WHICH I’M NOT SURE WHO WILL BE AFFECTED THE MOST: ME OR BABY. We have not spent a day away from each other since she was...

CLOSETMOM: Returning to work after having a baby, no-brainer. Is it?

So, You're a new mom, bliss! You are taking care of new life and adjusting; then next thing you know, time is up and you must leave your little one with someone else... A stranger... while you head off to work. THE DREAD! No one can take care of your baby...

CLOSETMOM: The dreaded feeling called “Mom Guilt”, Can We Ever Get Rid Of It?

Interacting with other women, I realised that to juggle a lot of responsibilities is increasingly normalised. The more you do, the more celebrated you are as a strong woman and the less you do then the less celebrated you are as a capable woman. It is a new era and...

CLOSET MOM: When You’ve Had Enough Of Saying “No, she’s a girl”

Toddlers tend to demand a lot of patience from their parents. What no one tells you is that you have to have patience for the friendly strangers too... Every time I go out in public with my daughter, she attracts a lot of attention because, well... she’s a loud busy...

MOM CHATS WITH CLOSET MOM: Comparative Mothering, detrimental?

  As a new mother, there are always going to be missteps and mistakes. Pounding on the guilt wont help you become a better mom, chatting to others in the same boat about it, will... My husband and I went out with our daughter to the pharmacy to get some prescription...